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"Mammaw," Bea Gamel, passed away on March 6, 2008.
A beloved mother and
grandmother, our “Mammaw” was born on December 28, 1920 in Okmulgee,
Oklahoma to Richard Austin Mallow and Carrie Lou Smith. In her early
twenties she moved to Houston, where she began a 30 year career of teaching
Kindergarten in the Spring Branch school district at Pine Shadows, Shadow
Oaks, and Westwood Elementary Schools.
Aside
from teaching young children, Beatrice’s greatest joy in life was spending
time with her family. She is survived by her four children, eight
grandchildren, and five beautiful great-grandsons. She was incredibly proud
of each one of her grandchildren and great-grandsons, and their lives were
truly blessed by her countless hours spent with each of them reading books,
playing games, walking to the park, watching baseball games and dance
recitals, collecting shells at the beach, and letting them each know that
their Mammaw thought that they were “winners”. She will be greatly missed.
Some of my favorite memories of Mammaw include
spending long weekends at her house with Carter playing games, building huge
forts using every piece of furniture and blanket available, playing in the
ditch, taking walks in the park picking up pecans, and playing card games
like "kings on the corner" and "crazy eights." We did some crazy stuff
at Mammaw's house, like raking all of the pine needles off the roof (at age
10 or so), spending all day gone playing in the big ditch, and jumping from
the 10m high-dive. Mammaw was always a little oblivious, but she was
supremely loving and fun to be around because she was always ecstatic to see
her family.
The thing I will miss most
about my Mammaw is her constant assurance that I would be awesome at
everything I did. Every time I would see her she would ask if I was
the CEO of my company yet. When I would respond "no, I've only been
working there for a year", she would look astonished and let me know that it
was only a matter of time before I was running the place because I was so
smart. She thought her grandkids were the most talented, smartest
people on the planet and she told us that she loved us often.
My favorite memory of Mammaw
was spending the night at her house with Carter. She had a huge house
with four bedrooms, but Carter and I slept on the floor in her bedroom in
sleeping bags on either side of her bed. Being little boys, we
obviously weren't interested in bedtime when she was, so we would stay awake
and goof off while she was trying to go to sleep. On several occasions
we would pull all the shoes out from under her bed (she stored all of her
shoes there), and threw them over the bed at each other. The bed was
very tall, so most of the shoes either landed on her or hit the walls or
furniture. Mostly she would just go "woo!", start laughing, and ask us
what we were up to. She tolerated our shenanigans because she loved us
and loved kids. The world needs more Mammaws.
I will always remember her as the smiling, supportive
grandma in a huge, pink hat and high-water pants, with SPF90 sunscreen on,
underneath an umbrella, going on walks in the park and taking trips to the
ball field to watch her grandsons be the best players on the field.
Here are some pictures from her life.




















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